The Change You Seek is Within

Category: SELF-DEVELOPMENT Published: Friday, 26 October 2018 Written by Life Coach Efosa Emovon


A famous actor and politician, Arnold Schwarzenegger once stated, “Failure is not an option, everyone has to succeed.” Friend, it is not a good thing that you are going all about with that old jalopy you called a car, what if it catches fire.

Not a good thing to chat up a pretty lady with a near rag suit, what if she sees the hole on it. Our beloved actor can’t be more right, failure is not an option. Something tells me all is not well with your marriage/relationship.

I just have this hunch that you are not happy with your health or finances. Although am not a prophet but I can see clearly that your mind is not in alignment with the direction the wind of life is blowing you.


It is, for this reason, I decided to introduce this site [Gate of success] to you. I decided to reach out to you through this medium because I know you are desperately in need of help.

I know you want a change in your life and want it really fast.

A little boy was learning how to skate [sliding by the aid or special shoes on snow]. His frequent tumbling elicited the sympathy of a man who was passing by.

The man grinned sympathetically and advice, “John, you are getting all banged up. Why don’t you stop for a while and just watch the others do it,”

With tears streaming down his eyes from his last fall, the little boy trained his eyes on his adviser and said, “Mister, I didn’t get these skates [shoes] to give up with, I got them to learn how with.”

Just like that little boy I know you didn’t open that business to close it, didn’t enter into that marriage or relationship to break it, didn’t built high hopes and dream big dreams to have them shattered.

In fact, I know you didn’t bargain for the drama happening in your life right now. But wait… Before you overwhelm yourself with despair and sink deep into depression, remember there cannot be dusk without dawn. No problem without a solution.

I am glad to inform that, I and my term have dedicated ourselves to helping you solve your problems. We are after your happiness and can’t wait to celebrate your success. Our method of achieving this aim is strictly motivation.

We believe that your greater tomorrow, the future upon which you rest your hope is now! We are also of the conviction that, the change that you seek must start from within you.

Alexander the Great was able to conquer the world not because he bears a charmed life, but because his parents were in the habit of stirring up thoughts of possibilities on his mind.

He started believing he could conquer the world when his mother queen Olympia, made him believes so, by promulgating his divine parentage.

This believe took form the day he rode the unruly stallion stubborn horse “Bucephalus” and his father, King Phillip 11, kissed him tearfully and said, “My boy, you must find a kingdom big enough for your ambition, Macedonia is too small for you.”


This statement more than anything else, changed Alexander’s outlook towards life. He started to have a sophisticated view of himself and before long, embarked on a campaign that seemed impossible to accomplish.

Alexander dared mightily! He touched the untouchable, tamed the untamable, passed the road that was impassable and achieved the impossible. He is remembered to this day as one of the greatest and most successful military commanders in the history of warfare.

Most of the world’s billionaires and multi-millionaires are not smarter or intelligent than you are, they are richer than you because of one obvious fate-they know what you don’t.

They easily get whatever they want because they have books, articles, and journals they use in igniting their spirits. That is why you see them daring mightily and succeeding beyond all measures.


Have you not seen the wonders of a motivated man? Once in a while it is good to dine with friends, good to dance, wine and party hard. But remember, it is also good to find out why your marriage/relationship is heading to the rocks and how to make it work again.

Why your neighbor is richer than you and how to bridge the gap. If you want to impact your world and achieve financial independence you must invest in self-development.

An investment in knowledge is an investment in destiny. Just as you create time to watch TV programs and to socialize with friends on social media, create time to read personal-development and career-related books, articles, and journals.

Listen to life-transforming tapes and attend seminars. You neglect this part that is why you are not living the better version of yourself. That is why you don’t know how cheap success is.

If you start doing this, something will change in you. The eyes of your understanding will be enlightened and you will start to see the world from a different perspective and do things the right way.

You now know where to go when you want to socialize with friends online; now know where to go when you want to search for information.

If you are looking for advice that will help you set worthwhile goals, build a healthy marriage/relationship and on the health issue, I recommend this site [Gate of success] to you.

The fact is that many problems have the built-in capability to grow more serious with the passing of time. If you don’t take action now, you are compounding your problem.

Don’t wait until things get from bad to worst. Visit us often to energize your spirit, visit us to stir up thoughts of possibilities on your mind, visit us to seek for a solution to your problem.

Thank you for giving me your time. I wish you a resounding success in your pursuits.








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